About Me

Jaime Wiles

Get to know me and my story

For over eighteen years, I've been a Reiki Practitioner, building a solid foundation in helping others find their balance. Alongside this, I naturally found myself guiding individuals towards their goals. This consistent experience inspired me to formalise my coaching skills, leading to my life coaching qualification in 2023.

If you're considering me as your coach, you'll want to know who I am, right? So, let's keep it real.

I'm a regular mum, really. My two grown-up kids still live with us, alongside my partner and our wonderful chaos of a zoo – three dogs and two cats! It's a busy household, but I wouldn't have it any other way. As the oldest of five, with three brothers and a sister, I come from a big family, and a quiet life has never been on the cards. We didn't grow up with a lot of money, and times were often tough, which meant experiencing life's real ups and downs. But we always had each other, and that really forged a strong family bond.

For a long time, I believed I was destined for a life of struggle, that things wouldn't change. It was only in recent years that I truly discovered that life has no limitations and that if I want something, I can go for it.

My journey as a Mum has shaped who I am. I home educated my kids, taking my oldest daughter out of school when the school environment wasn't working for her so for 18 years I was very much a full time Mum. It was a fantastic adventure. Later, my daughter was diagnosed with autism. She's grown into an independent woman, and I'm incredibly proud of her. Of course, she still faces challenges, but helping her navigate them has taught me the importance of empathy and seeing things from another person's perspective.

Home educating was as much a learning experience for me as it was for them! We took an autonomous approach, allowing them to explore their interests. While it might sound unconventional, children are naturally inquisitive, and this method instilled a lifelong love of learning in them. It was fun though, we had pet chickens, quails and a cockerel - we made a wormery, an ant farm plus a nature area/outdoor pond. We also grew vegetables, planted fruit trees and more. My daughter is a bookworm and artist, while my son is adventurous and loves the outdoors. Learning together created an incredibly close family dynamic.

Being a mum to a child with autism opened my eyes to the complexities of the human mind. Understanding the OCD, PDA, anxiety, sleep, dietary, and sensory issues that came with it led me to dive deep into research. I dove deep into studying it all, learning about different ways to manage it, because everyone’s different, right? And that led me down a rabbit hole of learning about the human mind in general.

In my free time, you'll find me immersed in nature. I love forest walks and wildlife spotting. I'm also passionate about plants and have maintained a tropical fish tank for 25 years. Living close to London, I love exploring the city, hopping on the tube for a dose of freedom and discovery. I'm also a huge foodie! Whether it's a nice meal out or a cozy takeaway, nothing beats snuggling up in my PJs, watching a good film, and enjoying some comfort food in my own space.

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I've included some photos that give you a glimpse into my life.